Today asks for me to write a letter to someone who has hurt me recently, well, to be honest, nobody has hurt me recently, so I don't have a letter to write. lol
As far as people that have hurt me in the past, well I won't waste much time on them. They're in the past, they will remain in the past. I'll be completely and utterly honest with you girls. When a person hurts me, a family member, a friend, a guy, whomever it may be. I'm quick to forgive, because resentment and anger towards other people won't get me anywhere. If I waste my time being angry, I'm only hurting myself.
Let's put it like this, I forgive, but I don't necessarily forget.
The friends that were toxic in my life, aren't my friends anymore. I forgive them for the things they did to hurt me, but I don't need to be hurt by them again. They're not my enemies, but they are no longer my friends.
The guys that hurt me in the past. I forgive them and in a way, I thank them. If they wouldn't have hurt me, I wouldn't be with the amazing guy that I'm with right now. I no longer talk to them, but if I was to run into one of them, I'd be happy to say Hi. No hard feelings here. :)
I try to keep myself as positive as possible. Sometimes it's hard, and I won't sit here and lie and say that I don't dwell on the past and the things that hurt me sometimes because I do, I'm only human.
But I truly don't like to spend much time on it. I've learned from my bf, that the best thing to do is just be happy and keep moving forward. :)